Aliyylala
What is Aliyylala?
Aliyilala means perfect. In exchange for the dictionary, it is defined as "nothing lacking, nothing lacking".
Chris Krimitsos The book, "Start Ugly: The Unexpected Path to Everyday Creativity", by the author, emphasizes the importance of innovation and creativity in personal and professional development. The main theme is that starting projects and ideas, rather than waiting for perfection, should "begin ugly". Krimitsos states that people often try to be perfect in the initial stage in the process of implementing new ideas or projects, and therefore often never get started.
The book emphasizes that at the beginning of creative processes, perfectionism is an obstacle and this can reduce productivity. By adopting the principle of "Start Ugly", individuals and organizations are encouraged to act quickly, learn from experience, and make improvements later in the process. The book emphasizes the importance of learning from mistakes and continuous improvement in creative processes.
It also includes stories that support the "Start Ugly" strategy with real-world examples and show how this approach has achieved success in different areas. This provides readers with practical information that they can apply on their own projects. The book can be considered an inspiring guide to innovation and creativity.
In this case, can we say that the pursuit of perfection can stop us before we even reach the starting line? Ironically, the desire to get off to a perfect start causes us to start many projects at all. But putting aside the pressure to be perfect and focusing on doing what we can, it makes every step of the process more enjoyable, not just getting started. Remember, the people who achieve perfection are very few on earth. So focus on your abilities to achieve your true potential. By recognizing and developing your own skills, you can achieve real success. Instead of trying to be perfect on this journey, aim to be the best person possible.
Again, the part so far reminded me of the proverb that the caravan we often use in Turkish is flattened on the road (which is in fact the view that the caravan is lined up on the road). The proverb "The caravan is flattened on the road" emphasizes the importance of moving away from the pressure of perfectionism and the idea of "ugly start" (ugly start) and describes the value of putting perfection aside and getting to work.
Instead of waiting for everything to be perfect in the beginning, it is important to start work and make the necessary adjustments in the process. Instead of looking for perfection when starting projects, he argues for the importance of taking action and improving the process as it progresses. This approach frees us from the trap of cumbersome and inefficient perfectionism, allowing us to step into a more productive and fulfilling working life.
Books on Perfectionism
Some popular books written in Turkish or translated into Turkish on perfectionism and overcoming it include:
- "The Peace of Not Being Perfect: Being Yourself, Accepting Yourself, and Happiness" - Brené Brown (Original Name: "The Gifts of Imperfection") This book, written by Brené Brown, describes the importance of getting rid of the burdens of perfectionism and accepting yourself as you are.
- "Ends: Give Yourself a Gift of Completion" – Jon Acuff (Original Name: "Final: Give Yourself the Gift of Done") Jon Acuff offers the effects of perfectionism on completing projects and practical ways to get things done.
- "The Art of Being Perfect" – Stephen Guise (Original Name: "How to Be an Imperfectionist") Stephen Guise offers tips for getting rid of the habits of perfectionism and living a more comfortable life.
- "Simpleness" – Shauna Niequist (Original Name: "Present Over Perfect") This book by Shauna Niequist offers a roadmap to a simpler and more intrinsically satisfying life, moving away from constant busyness and perfectionism.
- "Right to Fail" - Brené Brown (Original Name: "Dare to Lead") Brené Brown provides valuable information on how to deal with leadership and imperfections, while also addressing the effects of perfectionism on leadership.
Films about the subject
Films that study the theme of perfectionism often delve deeply into the inner conflicts of characters and their impact on their lives. Here are some notable films that have worked on this theme:
- "Whiplash" (2014): A musician's struggle with perfectionism and performance concerns. In this film, tension between a teacher and his student is at the forefront, pushing the boundaries of perfectionism and discipline.
- "Black Swan" (2010): This film, which we mentioned earlier, is based on a ballerina pushing her perfectionism and personal boundaries. Artistic perfectionism and psychological tension are all processed together.
- "The Master" (2012): In this film by Paul Thomas Anderson, a sailor immerses himself in a new religious movement in post-war America. The film delves deeply into perfectionism and the quest for identity.
- "Requiem for a Dream" (2000): This film by Darren Aronofsky describes the devastating lives of the characters, shaped by themes of addiction and perfectionism. The inner collapses that occur when pursuing dreams are highlighted.
- "A Beautiful Mind" (2001): Based on the life of John Nash, this film explores the problems of perfectionism and mental health, demonstrating the challenges and success in the life of a mathematical genius.
- "Fight Club" (1999): Directed by David Fincher, this film is about a man who is oppressed under the pressures of modern society, questioning his own identity and values. It processes themes of perfectionism, consumption culture, and masculinity.
- "The Social Network" (2010): This film, which tells the story of Mark Zuckerberg's founding of Facebook, processes the young entrepreneur's obsession with perfectionism and success.
- "Silver Linings Playbook" (2012): David O. Russell's film deals with the themes of bipolar disorder and perfectionism. The characters support each other as they try to overcome their personal struggles.
- "Black Mirror: San Junipero" (2016): This episode of "Black Mirror" explores possible scenarios of perfectionism and life beyond death. The quest for immortality in the virtual world is associated with perfectionism.
- "Gone Girl" (2014): In this film by David Fincher, themes of perfectionism and manipulation are processed. The effort to create a successful and perfect image of marriage causes intense tension between the characters.
These films deal with the stories revolving around the theme of perfectionism and the inner conflicts experienced by the characters from different perspectives.
If you have a book or movie to suggest about the subject, you can write it down in the comments :)
